Before you read
Prepare the space,
not a correct response.
- Read the book first and consider what the child already knows about the death or change.
- Use clear words such as ‘died’ and ‘death’. Avoid describing death as sleep, which can create confusion or fear.
- Make answering optional. A child may want to listen, draw, leave the room, sit close or return another day.
- If the loss is recent, coordinate with the child’s parent, carer or pastoral team where appropriate.









